” First, I asked a question: “Do you really like this girl and want to date her?Or do you just want to be physical with no strings? I would know what I want and I would just state that plain and clear.At the same time, she is human and wants connection like the next guy or girl.The Advice: Be Confident and Detached This must have made sense, because his next question was, “So, what do you think I should do then?
Only a confident guy would be able to articulate his feelings this way.
It also displays his lack of neediness; because he communicated he is fine with whatever.
The approach is the best policy for two other reasons: First, it is very much a weaning out process.
I guess I have forgotten some of the “games” played when you are in the dating pool. I love this kind stuff, but before I launched into what I think or offered advice, I made sure he wanted to hear what I had to say.
I seek to clarify and he said, “Well, she told me she was not looking for anything serious and that I was coming on strong. But, since I have been out in San Diego, she is the one that got in touch with me to hang out. I explained, “I have plenty of thoughts on this, and think I can offer some insight.
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They may call it different things, but it all comes down to neediness.” I explained that when he started calling and texting and wanting to hang out every second so soon after their hook up, she maybe tagged him as a needy man.